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Create a
Swoon-Worthy Life

living what you love*

*even if it’s guys less than half your age

Buckle Up, Buttercups!

Laugh and learn with me in my midlife journey as a cougar. Let’s blow the doors off of shoulds, supposed tos, and “right” ways of doing things. Join me in rediscovering and living what we love, finding more expansive ways to express and connect with the glorious world around us.

Outrageously fun sex isn’t a pre-requisite … but I highly recommend it. 


Patsy Mennuti, aka Hella Cougar, is an inspirational spiritual seeker aiming to make life’s arduous journey as light and joyous as possible.

A yoga teacher and Transformational Life Coach, Mennuti brings humor, deep insights and raw honesty to her writing, coaching, teaching and speaking engagements.


Mel Magazine

The Cougars Who Raise Their Cubs to Be Better Men

Younger men don’t just grow sexually and romantically with their older partners — they say they’re also getting better jobs, learning how to take care of themselves and moving up in the world

The Eloquent in the Room


We pick up where we left off, tallking about how women's body image changes as we get older and delve into the deeper truths about our search for sexual adventure. Obviously the topic of how much porn has influenced the way younger men behave in bead, rears it's ugly head.

The Eloquent in the Room


Why does heteronormativity dictate that the male partner should be the older person? Why does society barely even notice when Hollywood leading men, play opposite women 20 years their junior?

The Joe Vore Podcast

Cougar Dating Advice

Cougar, HellaCougar, joins Joe Vore on The Joe Vore Podcast to give dating advice. She talks what it is like dating younger guys & dating online as an older woman. She dives deep into dating apps & what she looks for from her Cubbies in a relationship.

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